"Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get–only with what you are expecting to give–which is everything." - Anonymous
While you may have heard that the number one problem in marriages is the lack of communication. I believe that this is only a symptom of a deeper relational problem - Selfishness.
Selfishness is simply “seeking one’s own advantage, pleasure, or well-being without regard for others.”
And all of us struggles with selfishness. You want what you want when you want it. Think about it. You don’t have to teach a young child how to say “gimme, gimme” when they see something like a toy they want that someone else has. It almost seem as if it something you are born with.
And as you get older that just does not change even following you into your relationships and eventually marriage. With the result being that you rarely focusing on enriching others which is why one in five marriages end in divorce.
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